Friday, August 8, 2008

it's not that hard.

i've been thinking about things that make me happy in a relationship. a couple of people might think im really hard to please, but in reality im not at all. i don't think its such a big task for your significant other to do the little things to make you happy. all it takes is some communication. let each other know what makes you happy , and what doesn't. it seems so simple yet its so complicated at the same time. personally, i love when im having a conversation with someone i care about* and he randomly tells me that he loves me. or if we havent seen each other in a while, how much he cant wait to just hold me or be in my presence - without me saying it first. we can be on the phone talking non stop for an hour or talk for 5 minutes and have you say something of that matter. guess which one i would prefer ? or waking up to those cute text msgs so that when you're done reading you just invision them laying right next to you. i'll be the first to admit - im not naive but im a sucker for a sweet talker. i might be contradicting myself but if you know me , you'll understand. if you know me, you'll also know i like attention. not OD but its just in my nature. so i dont think its that hard to mention every now and then how your lucky to have me or how amazing i am. haha - in no way was i being cocky. but girls, you know you love to hear that. not all time to the point that its annoying. but just to remind us. and we wanna see you do it on your own. there are some things we shouldn't have to tell our man. we just wish they would think outside of the box more often. we want to feel loved. if it wasn't for that then whats the point of being in a relationship?
okay im done venting for now. smh, now thats left is taking my own advice.
no music review - sorry.
-desiree <3

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

youre totally right sista!!!